I can understand that. I've been more fond of it than not ever since I picked up a random book called The Only Alien on the Planet and it ended up being, if I recall correctly, some sort of teen angst-drama.

And, of course, everyone draws the lines differently. I don't read a lot of romance, but it seems to me that the Sharing Knife books, by Bujold, are more romance-with-fantasy-elements than fantasy-with-romance-plot, yet my old library categorized them as the latter.