I read this and also left off feeling frustrated and annoyed at the protagonists. I think I almost stopped reading at the incest but it was near enough to the end of the book that I pushed through. It was a little too much for me. I remember it took me a while to get through it. There were good things in it, I loved the worldbuilding and some of the philosophy but would have liked to have a faerie point of view to balance out things.