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May. 6th, 2007 03:55 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
skygiantsA sociological query:
So when I hang out with a guy one-on-one, unless an actual move is made or romantic intent clarified beforehand, my baseline assumption tends to be: not a date. This holds true whatever the activity; I wouldn't automatically consider going to a movie with a female friend to be part of courtship behavior, so why should it be so for a male friend?
I'm not ranting or anything, just curious. The assumptions other people make and the assumptions I make often do not seem to be the same. Am I crazy out of the loop, or just naive? I ask you, O Wise LJers, where do your assumptions fall?
So when I hang out with a guy one-on-one, unless an actual move is made or romantic intent clarified beforehand, my baseline assumption tends to be: not a date. This holds true whatever the activity; I wouldn't automatically consider going to a movie with a female friend to be part of courtship behavior, so why should it be so for a male friend?
I'm not ranting or anything, just curious. The assumptions other people make and the assumptions I make often do not seem to be the same. Am I crazy out of the loop, or just naive? I ask you, O Wise LJers, where do your assumptions fall?
